How to Win Love Back With Common Sense

You have lost what you think is the love of your life. You are heartbroken and want more than anything else to have her back in your life. You are willing to do whatever it takes to make this woman want to be with you.
If you are like many you may be going about this in all the wrong ways. To have a good chance to win love back consider the following tactics which should prove helpful.

A very important thing you need to know in how to when trying to win love back is that you do not want your ex to think you are chasing her. This is absolutely the worst tactic to use. Calling at all hours of the day and night, sending endless test messages or e-mails will aggravate your ex rather than please her. Sending flowers and gifts at this stage will do much more harm than good. Don’t make the mistake so many guys do and pursue her.
Why does this active pursuit on your part not work? Because it makes you look desperate. While women like men who are kind and tender they also want them to be strong. When you appear desperate you are appearing to be anything but strong. Sometimes when you are acting desperate your ex girlfriend may play head games with you. For example, she may give in and agree to see you and then have her new guy there too. She’ll pretend she’s interested in you then go in another direction.
This game can go on and on, but it is not the way to win love back. Stop playing her game and start you own. Quit chasing and acting desperate and create “games” that will make her want to be with you.
If you and your ex girlfriend are at the same place, say a party, flirt a little with every other girl. If she happens to have someone in that group she’s not real fond of, pay her a little extra attention. When your ex sees you being charming with all of the other women she will remember how she felt when you paid attention to her.
Another “game” you can play is to ask one of her good friends to go out. Then send a text message to your ex with a message along this line “now that we are just friends, “I would like your opinion about where to take Susie to dinner. Does she prefer steak or seafood?” This is almost a guaranteed way to make your ex jealous which is often a way to win love back.
If you don’t want to play head games with your ex girlfriend there is a very simple thing you can do in the how to win love back arena-be happy. This may sound very simple to you but girls like to date happy guys. In the beginning you may have to fake being happy.
For a while focus on you, not her. Do things that you may not have time to do when you were in a steady relationship. If you have a hobby, spend more time on it. If you don’t have a hobby, now is a good time to find one. Spend time with your friends doing guy things. Spend time in the gym. Go on dates. A dinner and a movie doesn’t mean you are making a life-long commitment.
There are no guarantees in relationships and the ideas above may not make your ex girlfriend come back, but they will help you as you start the next chapter in your life. Hopefully you will win your love back. I Want Her Back