Rescue? Get Ex Girlfriend Back From Abusive Situation

You and your girlfriend broke up and she moved on to another to another guy and is now in a new relationship which you have learned an abusive situation. Now you are possibly not just missing her and would like to get her back but you’re also most concerned about her safety.

You may not be able to get her back but you do need to do all you can to get her out of the abusive situation. Having lost her for whatever reason is bad enough, but knowing she is with someone else who is abusing her is gut wrenching to say the least.

You have to decide what’s more important here: to get the ex girlfriend back or save her from the situation she’s in. You cannot use this as an attempt just to get her back. At this point her safety and well-being has to be your first priority.
If she sees you as looking out for her best interest rather than yours, she will be more likely to look favorably on your attempts to get her back from an abusive situation. Sadly, it is a well-known fact that once someone has been in an abusive situation it is easy for them to fall back into it. You have to let her know that she can turn to you for safety even if she doesn’t want to be reconciled with you right now.

If you took good care of her when you were together, then she will know that you offer her true protection and safety. If you didn’t take care of her well then you have to let her know that you have changed and that she can depend on you. This may be hard for you to do but it is an essential requirement if you want to get her out of the abuse. If you do need to make a change in how you treat women this is a good time to do it.

An abuser thrives on making the abused feels she deserves what she is getting. Many times the abused one‘s self esteem reaches such a low point she doesn’t feel like it’s possible for her to have anything better.

An abuser is generally very jealous and will do anything to keep the one he is abusing. When you try to rescue your ex from this situation you have to be aware of his need for control and the fact that he will try to do whatever in necessary to keep her from leaving. He may appear to have changed his ways of he may become even more abusive.

You must keep your ex girlfriend’s safety foremost when you are trying to get her out of the abusive situation.
Sometimes we don’t want to get involved in situations like abuse. We feel overwhelmed and just want to ignore it. But it is necessary that someone does. It won’t be easy and may be nasty before it’s over. Just know that good can come from it. If you are successful not only will you have possibly saved a life by getting your ex girlfriend out of an abusive situation but you may also get her back.
Your attempts at getting your ex-girlfriend out of the abusive situation may not have worked. You may have done everything humanly possible, but she may have chosen to remain where she was. If that is the case there’s nothing more that you can do. You did what you could and you have to accept the fact that the final choice was hers. Hopefully, your next relationship will be a good one. I Want Her Back