Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Use the 3 Cs for Ways To Get Him Back


You and your boyfriend broke up and now you realize how much you care for him and you want him back. You may have already tried to win him back but with no success. If this is your situation read on. In school a C was only an average grade, but using these 3 Cs will help you score above average in getting him back.
The three Cs that will help you win him back are: chorography, capture, and connect. Now I know some will say that what I am about to tell you is using manipulation to get him back. Well, it may be a little, but my question is: do you really want him back? If you do, then read on. Imagine yourself as an artist who is creating a landscape that is so enticing that your ex will want to come back to you. Take charge of the situation using your feminine strengths-you know, your gifts that draw men to you. Doing this to get him back will take some time but the end result-getting your ex back- should certainly make it worth your time and effort.
You are going to be a chorographer-the one who plans the dance. As you work to get him back there is going to be some emotional dancing going on. Since you already know your ex and I would assume you know him pretty well if you are willing to work this hard to get him back, you know how he is probably going to respond to different situations. So your job is to create situations that cause him to react the way you want him to. When the two of you are on the floor dancing, he probably takes the lead. In this dance you are taking the lead, but you have to play it smart and never let him know what you are doing.
Now this next way to get him back is similar to the above but is much more direct. You will be setting a trap. Your goal is to captivate him. You may have to use some bait to get him into trap, but since you know him so well you know what he will respond to. It can be anything from a walk in a park to a dinner in a fancy restaurant. The idea is to get him alone and get him vulnerable.
You are now ready to move in for the kill. Your job still isn’t complete. You have captured him now is the time to connect with him. This may be the most difficult part, but somehow you have to reestablish the emotional connection with him. This is the reason you have done everything to this point. Not only do you have to reconnect but if you want it to be something special the connection has to be stronger than what you had before. The best way to do this is to make him want to connect with you. When you are acting on ways to get him back don’t force issues, let him make the decision that he wants you.
How to set the bait, get him to go where you want him to, catch him and connect with him on an emotional level give you the blueprint. You know him and how he responds so the details on how to accomplish this task will have to be filled in by you.
All relationships require time and effort if they are to be successful. Sometimes that time and effort are required to repair a broken relationship. Let your imagination go into overdrive and you will come up with all kinds of possibilities of how to recapture the love you and your ex once shared. Get Your Guy Back

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