Save My Relationship 3 Positive Steps When Getting Back Together

Getting back together after a breakup is something people often want to do, but usually they have no idea where to start. They just know that they miss the other person and want to rekindle the relationship.


Sometimes they are just too afraid to make the first move; the thought of being rebuffed can be overpowering. This is not the time to let ego rule.


The absolutely worst thing you can do to initiate getting back together after a breakup is to call your ex and beg for their return. Never appear needy or desperate. Right up there with begging is locking yourself in your home and crying until you have no more tears. If you are serious about getting together after a breakup, I have help for you. Here are the three best steps you can pursue for getting back together after a breakup:

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1-First, and probably most important, getting back together after a breakup demands that you accept what happened-there really was a breakup. Once you accept this fact then you can work on renewing the relationship. Getting back together after a breakup doesn’t mean picking up where the relationship ended; it means starting over again. You cannot approach it as merely rekindling the old relationship. Something was wrong in that relationship or you would still be together.

2-Getting back together after a breakup does not start with calling your ex. You need to let some time pass to give things a chance to cool down, get control of your emotions, and think, as objectively as possible, about the cause(s) of the breakup. This process may take some time, but will be worth it in the long run. Work on improving the relationship in your mind. Do not call your ex until you are on an even keel emotionally and have a good idea of how your relationship with your ex can be better.

3-The old saying-it’s all in the timing- is certainly true in getting back together after a breakup. Right timing doesn’t just happen-you have to plan it. This planning involves the when and how.

By the time you have gone through these steps you will have a better idea about whether or not you are still in love with your ex. If you decide you are and want to get back with that person it is time to stop worrying about who was at fault. Everything has ended, so spending time being concerned about who was wrong id futile. Rather you need to have a positive attitude toward your ex as you focus on getting back together after a breakup. If you move slowly and remain positive getting your ex back may be easier than you ever imagines. This Could Help