Thursday, July 9, 2009

How To Get a Girlfriend Back


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You want to talk to your ex, but she apparently doesn’t want to talk to you. You call, or try to meet her, but that’s where it stops. You want to get your girlfriend back but she just doesn’t seem interested in you anymore, You probably wonder why she won’t at least return a phone call or agree to meet just for old times’ sake. You possibly are approaching the situation subjectively. If you were the one who initiated the breakup you may now have a great feeling of remorse.
If she initiated the breakup you might feel a lot of guilt for not treating her well enough that she wanted to stay with you. For whatever reason, you are not willing to leave your ex alone. You justify your attempts at reconciliation as being persistent and she keeps running away.
Before it’s too late for you to have a chance of getting your girlfriend back heed the following tips:
1. Use reverse psychology-Before we go further you have to understand this basic fact: women can be complicated and they sometimes don’t mean what they say. Now let’s look at this broken relationship from another angle. Your ex girlfriend may be going through somewhat of an emotional crisis. She may be trying to figure out what is best for her and all she sees you doing is hounding her. Sometimes the best way to handle an ex girlfriend who is refusing advances is simple: give her space.
This will probably be very hard to do but it often works. Why? Because if she can’t hear you explain your side, you will have her wondering what’s going on with you. Completely changing your approach will make her think about you in a different way. If used cleverly turning the tables on her will work.

2. Flirt with her but keep your distance- Keep the interaction open-ended. Let her know that it’s still her choice whether or not to go out with you again. Hopefully she will realize that you are still the flirt you were when you first met and will want to get back with you.
3-Don’t be needy- Women like self-confident-not cocky- men and your hounding her makes you look needy. Treat her like you would a girl who want to woo, and not as the ex that you are desperate to have back.

While you’re learning the different ways to get a girlfriend back, be careful that you don’t let her come back to you as “just a friend” unless that is what you want the relationship to be. If she no longer has a romantic interest in you then you will probably be better off moving on. For more help This might be helpful

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