Signs Of Break Up On The Way Stop Getting Dumped

Breaking up survival
Going through a love break up is very painful; I say it’s one of life’s more painful experiences. Sometimes after the relationship is over we can look back and think “why didn’t I see that coming.

The handwriting was on the wall.” The signs that the relationship was in trouble were there.
If you can remember these signs you will be able to help avoid a love break up in the future. These signs can also help you get back together after a split.

Lack of physical contact- A possible sign that a love break up is on the horizon is the lack of physical contact. If your girlfriend or boyfriend has stopped holding your hand for no apparent reason, or if he or she stops putting an arm over your shoulder at the movies or anywhere in public then this could signal a problem.
If the situation goes beyond not touching to the person being uncomfortable at your touch, then you need to have a conversation about what is going on. You can’t assume that your partner flinched at your touch that a love breakup is coming.

There are many things that may cause a person not to want to be touched at any given moment.
A person may be deep in thought and be startled or surprised by a touch or he or she may not feel well. Every change in behavior does not mean that there is an upcoming love break or even that anything is wrong in the relationship. Watch closely to determine if some behavior change is an occasional thing or if it’s a permanent part of the person’s make- up.

Lies-If you catch your boyfriend/girlfriend in lies, whether big ones or small ones that seem harmless, a problem may be coming. If the lie is a small one, you have to wonder why it was told to begin with. You’ve probably heard the saying: “O what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive.” This is so true in any relationship particularly a romantic one. Honesty and trust are too important in a healthy relationship for lying to be a part of it. The exception is if a special surprise planned for you was the cause of the deceit.

If you think that the lack of physical contact and lying are signals of an upcoming breakup, talk about it with your partner immediately. Open communication is most important. If there is a problem that may be easily solved then you can avoid a love breakup. If it can’t be solved then at least you won’t be blindsided when the breakup happens. For more…