Winning Back Your Ex

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Often when there is a breakup in a relationship whether it’s a marriage or dating, people think it’s over but it’s possible to put it back together. If you are still in love with your ex and want to try again, don’t give up hope. You may be able to restore the relationship.

Before we go further, let’s look at the relationship realistically and determine if it is one that should be saved. You don’t want to revive one that should remain dead and risk what may be dire consequences. If your relationship involved any physical or emotional abuse then you need to accept this relationship does not need to be restored.

Rather you need to work on restoring any eroded self-esteem you may have and move on.
If, on the other hand, your relationship broke up over a misunderstanding or loss of trust, then the relationship has the possibility of a full recovery even if only one of you wants it. You just have to find the right course to take.

If you declare “I'm still in love with my ex!” that means you feel that you had a really strong relationship with your ex. Chances are good that your ex feels the same way about you.

If it has been several weeks since the breakup you should call your ex and see if you can arrange a meeting to talk. Don’t make it sound as though you are begging and pleading for this opportunity. Be as casual sounding as you can.

If your ex agrees to the meeting arrange for it to be somewhere neither of you will be tempted to create a scene or become overly emotional. If when you say “I'm still in love with my ex!” you really mean is, then you need to take some time to decide exactly what you are going to say to win them back.
Take some time to really think about why you want to get your ex back.

You don’t necessarily have to make notes, but be sure you have your reasons clear in your mind before your meeting. You know that you’re still in love but your ex may need more reasons than that to be willing to take you back.

When you meet with your ex talk about your dreams and aspirations and how you see him or her fitting into your future. However, don’t make the mistake of making your ex the “be all and end all’ of your dreams. You certainly don’t want to come across as desperate; you just want your ex to know how much you care and that you see a real place in your life with them. If your ex doesn’t agree to the reconciliation, you don’t want to have put yourself in the position that makes it seem your dreams are ruined.

Give your ex the opportunity to express their feelings and really listen to what they are saying. Hopefully your ex will feel the same way you do and reconciliation will be a reality. If this isn’t the case, then you will know for sure that the relationship is over. You will also have the satisfaction of knowing you did everything you could to restore the relationship. Now is the time to begin the healing process and be ready to move on with your life. Your true soul mate is out there somewhere. Click Here!